Letter from a Grieving Father

Yesterday, I came across a letter in syracuse.com, an online newspaper primarily for the residents of Syracuse in New York State. The letter was posted on July 17th this year.

To the Editor:

Regarding your editorial, “Break the silence surrounding suicide” (July 14, 2019):

As a grieving father who lost his beautiful son to suicide, I would like to tell you this:

Antidepressant use has increased dramatically in the last 15 years, mainly due to doctors writing prescriptions for off-label use of the drug. Doctors expect their patients to self-monitor changes in their own mental health, even though every antidepressant and every psychotropic prescription drug carries a black box warning about suicide ideation.

The FDA black box warning for all psychotropic drugs clearly states: “Families and caregivers should be advised of the need for close observation and communication with the prescriber.” This is not happening. The standard of care practiced and accepted by most physicians dispensing psychotropic drugs is to ignore the black box warning.

Counseling should first occur before any psychotropic drug is prescribed. Unfortunately, the majority of physicians and psychiatrists practice “first visit, first pill.”

Patients need to be informed of the risks of starting or stopping psychotropic drug therapy. Similar to the opioid epidemic, doctors carelessly writing prescriptions are contributing to the ever-increasing crisis of medically induced suicides.

In my son’s case, his psychiatrist treated “age appropriate stress” as a mental illness and prescribed him Paxil [Seroxat] and Klonopin [Clonazepam], which introduced him to suicide ideation. The one thing that angers me the most is an answer my son wrote on a questionnaire found in his medical records; “ I wish I could feel the same as I did before taking psychotropic drugs.”

If my son had never been prescribed psychotropic drugs, he would be alive today, happy and healthy. I believe this 100 percent.

One of the biggest regrets I have as a father is not knowing the serious side effects of antidepressants and SSRIs. Had I known the dangers, I would have been able to prevent my son’s tragic death.

I’m not a medical doctor and I would never give medical advice, but I will tell anyone this: Be sure to read the prescription drug label warnings and make sure someone close to you knows about the warnings, too.

Glenn Compton

Father of Robert Compton, Nokomis, Florida


Searching for further information about Robert, I found this obituary at Legacy.com

Robert Compton
Jun. 14, 1987 – Aug. 17, 2016
Robert Compton, 29, of Nokomis, Florida, loving son and dear brother, passed on August 17, 2016. He graduated from Venice High School, and he holds advanced degrees from the University of Florida. Robert worked as an environmental engineer with the Army Corps of Engineers in West Palm Beach, Florida.

One Reply to “Letter from a Grieving Father”

  1. It’s so very sad indeed / a beautiful looking soul / as parents we should not have to bury our kids / I too had a beautiful daughter / died from painkillers just 36 / no help from no-one, just me.
    There is not a day goes by that I don’t think about her / and I know you are the same.
    I planted a tree in her name / Angie’s Butterflies Bush / the red admirals every summer are amazing / RIP to our angels.

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